And the whole Oscar thing, that is just surreal: you spend months and months doing promotion, and then come back to reality with this golden thing in your hands. You put it in the office and then you just have to look at it sitting on the shelf. And, after about two weeks, you go: 'What is that doing there?'

The good thing about being an actor, and the gift of being an actor, is that you are beautifully forced to see the world with different eyes.

I truly don't have any formula for the choices I make.

Only unfulfilled love can be romantic

[That night] I was sitting by Jack Nicholson with my long list of thanks, and I said, `I'm so nervous. I don't know what to say if I go up there.' He said, `Don't get emotional, drop the names, and dedicate it to your mother.'

When I was born, there was a very isolated idea of what it meant to be a man or a woman, and you belonged to one gender or the other.

Now, there are so many movies, so many festivals, and so many awards going on, each judged with each other, like your work is worse than others and that's not fair. How can you tell what's best and what's worst from these awards? We're talking about art.