I don't get discouraged because of the comments. After all, they don't really know me.
I monitor haters' comments. I am aware of vicious rumors, but I am not afraid anymore.
Life is too short to blame other people.
I don't think I have charisma. I don't think that someone will yell 'Wow, he's charismatic' when I'm eating in a restaurant.
I am aware of the haters and bad rumors. I'd be lying if I say I don't care, but I try my best not to.
I occasionally watch provocative videos.