I do not believe we can truly enter into our own inner pain and wounds and open our hearts to others unless we have had an experience of God, unless we have been touched by God. We must be touched by the Father in order to experience, as the prodigal son did, that no matter how wounded we may be, we are loved. And not only are we loved, but we too are called to heal and to liberate. This healing power in us will not come from our capacities and our riches, but in and through our poverty. We are called to discover that God can bring peace, compassion and love through our wounds.
Jean VanierIn the end, the most important thing is not to do things for people who are poor and in distress, but to enter into relationship with them, to be with them and help them find confidence in themselves and discover their own gifts.
Jean VanierI am struck by how sharing our weakness and difficulties is more nourishing to others than sharing our qualities and successes.
Jean VanierLook at your own poverty welcome it cherish it don't be afraid share your death because thus you will share your love and your life
Jean VanierWhen we love and respect people, revealing to them their value, they can begin to come out from behind the walls that protect them.
Jean Vanier