You plant a garden one flower at a time. ... You write a book one word at a time, clean a closet one shelf at a time, run a marathon one step at a time. If you feel defeated by some large task, get your spade and dig the first hole.

This is one of the take-home messages for me: we just walk around with this narrative in America that everybody wants to be rich and famous. That that’s why people do what they do. And you know, all through these pages you learn over and over again no, actually not even NFL cheerleaders are doing it for fame and fortune. There’s another motivation going on that is so pure and human. That to me was an eye-opener in a really wonderful way.

I was suppose to write a book about being a mom, to organize my thoughts into chapters and figure out a structure to hang them on, to make a lasting point, but somehow I decided to go ahead and become a mother instead.

Solitude is a place where all is quiet - except the beating of your heart.

It's much better to be apart and wish you were together than to be together and wish you were apart.

Dreams are matters of the heart, things that pull you along as if they have hooked you someplace deep inside.

Maybe the biggest problem with loneliness is that we walk around thinking we're the only ones suffering from it.