Do not jump the gun because of gossip.
People who are angry at themselves sometimes blame others. It's a sign of immaturity.
It takes time to really get to know someone. Take the time because in the early months of a relationship, both parties are in the "selling" phase.
Just because a jackass brays does not mean you have to pay attention.
What other people think is their problem.
The best exercise in the world is to bend down and help someone up.