Fatherhood is not an easy assignment, but it ranks among the most imperative ever given, in time or eternity.

Think the best of each other, especially of those you say you love. Assume the good and doubt the bad.

Believe in miracles. I have seen so many of them come when every other indication would say that hope was lost. Hope is never lost. If those miracles do not come soon or fully or seemingly at all, remember the Savior's own anguished example: if the bitter cup does not pass, drink it and be strong, trusting in happier days ahead.

Though we may feel we are "like a broken vessel," as the Psalmist says (Psalms 31:12), we must remember, that vessel is in the hands of the divine potter. Broken minds can be healed just the way broken bones and broken hearts are healed. While God is at work making those repairs, the rest of us can help by being merciful, nonjudgmental, and kind.

You and I won't ever find ourselves on that cross, but we repeatedly find ourselves at the foot of it. And how we act there will speak volumes about what we think of Christ's character and His call for us to be His disciples.

Along with filters on computers and a lock on affections, remember that the only real control in life is self-control.

Don't you quit! You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help & happiness ahead.