Just because you dress sexy doesn't mean you're a bad girl; it just means you know how to dress.

I can't help but be a different person now that I've had kids. That really does change your whole perspective on life for the better.

In the past, love for me has always meant forever, and sure, you still nurse some of those fantasies, but I don't try to force it anymore. I hung on to my fairy-tale ideals for a long time. But where I am now, what I've been through, there are no rules. There are lots of ways it can turn out.

Doubt is a killer. You just have to know who you are and what you stand for.

I like to cook Puerto Rican food. That's what I grew up on: rice, beans, meat, some Italian-American food. I know my way around the kitchen.

For me, love is the never-ending question. It is confusing. It is the answer, but it is also inundated with contradictions and complications.

Always follow your heart. Sometimes it's gonna hurt - but you're going to be fine.