Here's something else, something important: Love is not transactional. It is not a bank account, you don't always get what you put in. Sometimes you put in so much and get very little return on your investment, at least that you can see right away.
Jenny HanI loved him in a way that you can really only do the first time around. It's the kind of love that doesn't know better and doesn't want to-it's dizzy and foolish and fierce. That kind of love is really a one-time-only thing.
Jenny HanSometimes itโs like people are a million times more beautiful to you in your mind. Itโs like you see them through a special lensโbut maybe if itโs how you see them,thatโs how they really are.Itโs like the whole tree falling in the forest thing.
Jenny HanLove is scary: it changes; it can go away. That's the part of the risk. I don't want to be scared anymore.
Jenny Han