We need to call sin what the Bible calls it and not soften it with modern expressions borrowed from our culture.
Jerry BridgesHere is a spiritual principle: We cannot exercise love unless we are experiencing grace. You cannot truly love others unless you are convinced that God's love for you is unconditional, based solely on the merit of Christ, not on your performance. Our love, either to God or to others, can only be a response to His love for us.
Jerry Bridges