I don't think that I can be settled and I don't think that I would ever want to be.

I don't tell clients what to do. I don't even really tell them what the future is.

Feminism now seems to be defined as success is defined: as being as good at capitalism as men are. I feel very estranged from it.

I don't think you can write an experience as you're having it without being an idiot.

I was twenty-one when I was hired by Planned Parenthood. It was my first work experience outside of either temping or working for my father at his store.

A wild appreciation of men and women . . . who passionately and fearlessly and recklessly redefine romance. . . . The passionate creatures who refuse to play it safe and settle down now have an intelligent, like-minded advocate.

I think American literature is in a tedious place, horrible place. I can't even engage with it.