The observer is the observed.
The moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel the depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it, you will discover that for you the world is transformed.
Freedom lies beyond the field of consciousness.
So through identification you have pleasure and pain.
Enlightenment is an accident, but some activities make you accident-prone.
There can only be a relationship between human beings when we accept what is, not what should be.