Discipline is necessary to curb the mind, otherwise there is no peace.
Love, and don't be caught in opinions and ideas about what love is or should be.
The description is not the described; I can describe the mountain, but the description is not the mountain, and if you are caught up in the description, as most people are, then you will never see the mountain
What you believe you experience.
Do not pursue what should be, but understand what is.
Can another help bring about a transformation in you? If he can, you are not transformed; you are merely dominated, influenced.