Observe, and in that observation there is neither the "observer" nor the "observed" - there is only observation taking place.
Jiddu KrishnamurtiRelationship between human beings is based on the image-forming, defensive mechanism. In our relationships each of us builds an image about the other, and these two images have relationship, not the human beings themselves.
Jiddu KrishnamurtiHave you ever sat very quietly with closed eyes and watched the movement of your own thinking? Have you watched your mind working?or rather, has your mind watched itself in operation, just to see what your thoughts are, what your feelings are, how you look at the trees, at the flowers, at the birds, at people, how you respond to a suggestion or react to a new idea? Have you ever done this?
Jiddu KrishnamurtiWhen one has an image about oneself one is surely insane, one lives in a world of illusion.
Jiddu Krishnamurti