Bisexuality is not so much a cop-out as a fearful compromise.
All women are lesbians except those who don't know it.
It's necessary in order to attract attention, to dazzle at all costs, to be disapproved of by serious people and quoted by the foolish.
The right to reticence seems earned only by having nothing to hide.
Passivity is the dragon every woman has to murder in her quest for independence.
Telling it like it is means telling it like it was and how it is now that it isn't what it was to the is now people.