When you don’t understand what is happening, you need to wait, trust God, and rest in His care. He is always faithful to His own.
If you need a guide for your ongoing relationship with God, read Psalms.
Transitions themselves are not the issue, but how well you respond to their challenges!
It’s not how you start that’s important, but how well you finish!
Restoration and hope is available each time you return to God.
As you can see marriage is about putting away selfishness and taking on the concept of teamwork.