Kids ought to have two bicycles, one to ride and one to rent.
For things to change, you have to change.
Once you have seen and felt your ideal future, you will be ready and able to pay any price to get there.
If you could do better, should you?
If someone gives you $1,000,000 you'd better become a millionaire so you can keep the money. Success doesn't want to hang around incompetent people.
Asking is the beginning of receiving.