You cannot take the mild approach to the weeds in your mental garden. You have got to hate weeds enough to kill them. Weeds are not something you handle; weeds are something you devastate.
For things to change, you have to change.
Don't set your goals too low. If you don't need much, you won't become much.
Give whatever you are doing and whoever you are with the gift of your attention.
Civilization is the intelligent management of human emotions.
You must change your approach in order to change your results.