My suggestion would be to walk away from the 90% who don't and join the 10% who do.

Opportunity shies away from need, but opportunity is attracted by talent and ability. What you don't want to happen is opportunity to turn cool on you. You don't want to offend opportunity. So the only thing you present to opportunity is ability, performance and skill. Don't present need to opportunity.

It is the set of the sails, not the direction of the wind that determines which way we will go.

If we are not happy with where our past decisions have led us, then the place to start is with our current thinking process.

Attitude determines choice, and choice determines results. All that we are, and all that we can become has indeed been left unto us.

Make sure what you do is a product of your own conclusion.

Finding is reserved for the searchers, we don't find what we need, we find what we search for