If we do not respect ourselves, we are on the one hand forced to despise those who have so few resources as to consort with us, so little perception as to remain blind to our fatal weaknesses. On the other, we are peculiarly in thrall to everyone we see, curiously determined to live out — since our self-image is untenable — their false notions of us… We play roles doomed to failure before they are begun, each defeat generating fresh despair at the urgency of divining and meeting the next demand made upon us.
Joan DidionWhy do you always have to be right. Why do you always have to have the last word. For once in your life just let it go.
Joan DidionThe impulse to write things down is a peculiarly compulsive one, inexplicable to those who do not share it
Joan Didion