Marriage is memory, marriage is time. Marriage is not only time: it is also, parodoxically, the denial of time.
Joan DidionEverybody who undergoes a death and finds themselves grieving is obsessed with โ or maybe overly focused on โ the idea that they canโt display self-pity, they have to be strong. Actually there are a lot of reasons why you are going to feel sorry for yourself, but thatโs your first concern.
Joan DidionAging and its evidence remain lifes most predictable events, yet they also remain matters we prefer to leave unmentioned, unexplored.
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