It's hard to find a book that's safe to write. Because one always goes to dark or difficult places.
California: The west coast of Iowa.
I did consider marriage and motherhood extreme and doomed commitments. Not out of any experience of them as such, but it was simply the way I looked at things.
Read, learn, work it up, go to the literature. Information is control.
Everything goes. I am working very hard at not thinking about how everything goes.
I don't have a very clear idea of who the characters are until they start talking.