I've always been an encourager at heart.
You may be in a tough time but that setback is simply a setup for a greater comeback.
Your situation may look impossible, but don't ever rule out the favor of God.
You need to follow your own heart in light of God’s word and do what you feel is right and good for you.
I always try to put a seed of hope into people's hearts. I'm not there to teach them doctrine necessarily, but to let them know that God is a good God, and has a plan for their lives. Hopefully, that will restore their faith, or draw them into faith.
You will never rise above the image you have of yourself in your own mind.