When you are in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude. We don't get to know people when they come to us; we must go to them to find out what they are like.
Johann Wolfgang von GoetheIf you want someone to develop a specific trait, treat them as though they already had it.
Johann Wolfgang von GoetheTo act is easy, to think is hard; to act according to our thought is troublesome.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe