I consider myself a pretty rounded guy. I've done pretty elite things in business, sport and academics and all of a sudden I woke up one morning and I'm a 'big, black, British, gay guy'. That was frustrating at times.

We need to accept that some people are camp and some people are butch. Some people are pretty and some people are average, but we all fit.

You can't be a part-time man of principle.

I thought kissing was good with girls, but I always thought you know it probably could be better, so there was nothing really.

In the NBA you need a little bit more than that when Jordan is front of you. You need a little bit more than that when it is Barkley or Karl Malone or Shaq or whoever else. You need a lot more than that frankly if you're the English kid who can't jump.

Knowing yourself, knowing where you want to get, combining those things gives you the pragmatic steps.

I just wanted to fit in, so probably early on I knew, but it was... social life was such a distant part of my existence when I was in school that I didn't even think about it too much.