I consider myself a pretty rounded guy. I've done pretty elite things in business, sport and academics and all of a sudden I woke up one morning and I'm a 'big, black, British, gay guy'. That was frustrating at times.

I'm a nerd. I like to sit in the library. I don't like to sweat.

I'd probably have to leave home in order to become a basketball player of any note.

There are some people the gestation period is like an elephant's and it's just years and years before they're ready.

I always think coming out is something that you do for people who really deserve it. It should be.

Knowing yourself, knowing where you want to get, combining those things gives you the pragmatic steps.

I wasn't going to let Jerry Sloan embarrass me, because basketball had a proper role in my life. I suspected my basketball philosophy wasn't the bottom line anyway.