I'm a nerd. I like to sit in the library. I don't like to sweat.

I think it's too easy to just say that there is a direct and necessary conflict between black identity and gay identity. I think it's more nuanced than that simply because I think black is a color and then people layer on top of it all kinds of socio-cultural elements.

I thought kissing was good with girls, but I always thought you know it probably could be better, so there was nothing really.

I wasn't going to let Jerry Sloan embarrass me, because basketball had a proper role in my life. I suspected my basketball philosophy wasn't the bottom line anyway.

I suppose I knew I was gay at age 11 or so.

I always think coming out is something that you do for people who really deserve it. It should be.

In a country like America, there are places, many states here still where coming out means you lose your job, where coming out means division, where it means potentially abuse.