True honor is an outflow from a heart that fears God.
An offended heart is the breeding ground of deception.
Jesus never gave advice
We all have life-defining moments. They are like open-book tests, but we don't know we have been examined until it is over.
True humility is absolute obedience and dependence on God. It puts Him first, others second, and ourselves third in all things.
I say that trials and tests locate a person. In other words they determine where you are spiritually. They reveal the true condition of your heart. How you react under pressure is how the real you reacts.