Live only for what you know in your heart is worth dying for.
Relationship means you give all of your heart.
The movement of you brought forward is love.
Awareness, one with knowing, is love.
The softer your heart is the less that your past is forming your present and your future. When there is openness and softness of heart, what forms the present and the future is not your past but the reality of your own being.
In a real relationship the two of you are together, meeting without your histories.