The more that you need a relationship, the less you are able to be in a relationship. The more that something on the surface can answer you, the less that you will be really answered when you're in it.
John de RuiterThe let-go of the last little bit is the biggest because, in that, there is no return.
John de RuiterThe more that you bypass of your own mechanisms, the more in your self that will come apart.
John de RuiterStart out identifying what you know are delicacies of being within, tiny little touches of knowledge that has beingness in it, special soft spots of heart. As soon as you identify them, you need to believe them.
John de Ruiter