Be warmed in your heart in the midst of your sexuality. Your response to your own sexuality is that you are warmly in it, not exploiting it, not moving away from it, that you are completely present in it, warmed.
John de RuiterWhen you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your self.
John de RuiterFind the most delicate qualities within; then treat these qualities as tiny little seeds that you would plant in your heart, with you being the gardener.
John de Ruiter