The purpose of the first draft is not to get it right, but to get it written.
Love is always a surprise and you never get it right.
I sat around the kitchen every Sunday afternoon listening to my mother and aunts talk about the people in the neighborhood. Gossip - I loved it. And that turns out to be the writer's job: to attend to the gossip and spread it as far as you can.
Pleasure is, after all, a luxury. It's love that's essential.
We all sleep with the corpses of our dead lovers.
Place is character. And all writing is regional.