Love brings up our unresolved feelings . One day we are feeling loved , and the next day we are suddenly afraid to trust love . The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner's love .
John GrayToday secular faith is ebbing, and it is the apostles of unbelief who are left stranded on the beach.
John GrayWe mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave when we love someone.
John GrayA women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood
John GrayMen are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.
John GrayWhen a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. He makes it safe for her to express herself. The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.
John Gray