A women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood

Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.

As precious as knowledge itself is the learning. As precious as any reward is the earning.

Because she is afraid of not being supported, she unknowingly pushes away the support she needs.

When a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. He makes it safe for her to express herself. The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.

A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results.

always thought of myself as a loving person. But she was right. I had been a fair-weather friend. As long as she was happy and nice, I loved back. But if she was unhappy or upset, I would feel blamed and then argue or distance myself