We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave when we love someone.
John GraySuccess lies in doing not what others consider to be great but what you consider to be right.
John Grayalways thought of myself as a loving person. But she was right. I had been a fair-weather friend. As long as she was happy and nice, I loved back. But if she was unhappy or upset, I would feel blamed and then argue or distance myself
John GrayThe number one way a man can succeed in fulfilling a woman's primary love needs is through communication. By learning to listen to a woman's feelings, a man can effectively shower a woman with caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance.
John Gray