Because she is afraid of not being supported, she unknowingly pushes away the support she needs.
John GrayTake time off to give to yourself, in a sense to fill yourself up to fullness, to where now you can overflow in giving.
John Grayalways thought of myself as a loving person. But she was right. I had been a fair-weather friend. As long as she was happy and nice, I loved back. But if she was unhappy or upset, I would feel blamed and then argue or distance myself
John Gray