Ambition robs you of your childhood. The moment you want to become an adultโin any wayโsomething in your childhood dies.
John IrvingIf I had to be anything," he told her, "I'd probably be a socialist, but I don't want to be anything.
John IrvingSo we dream on. Thus we invent our lives. We give ourselves a sainted mother, we make our father a hero; and someoneโs older brother and someoneโs older sister โ they become our heroes too. We invent what we love and what we fear. There is always a brave lost brother โ and a little lost sister, too. We dream on and on: the best hotel, the perfect family, the resort life. And our dreams escape us almost as vividly as we can imagine them.
John Irving