What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
John IrvingIt seems to me that people who donโt learn as easily as others suffer from a kind of learning disabilityโthere is something different about the way they comprehend unfamiliar materialโbut I fail to see how this disability is improved by psychiatric consultation. What seems to be lacking is a technical ability that those of us called โgood studentsโ are born with. Someone should concretely study these skills and teach them. What does a shrink have to do with the process?
John IrvingA writer's job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
John IrvingI always know more about the ending, even the aftermath to the ending, than I know about the beginning. And so there's a construction that works from back to front.
John Irving