We have a name for those who try to praise when they have no pleasure in the object. We call them hypocrites.
John PiperGod took the record of all your sins-all your sexual failures-that made you a debtor to wrath, and instead of holding them up in front of your face and using them as the warrant to send you to hell, he put them in the palm of his Sonโs hand and nailed them to the cross.
John Piper