The common practice of keeping up appearances with society is a mere selfish struggle of the vain with the vain.
John RuskinI had no companions to quarrel with, nobody to assist, and nobody to thank... the evil consequence of all this was not, however, what might perhaps have been expected, that I grew up selfish or non affectionate; but that, when affection did come, it came with a violence utterly rampant and unmanageable.
John RuskinThe strength and power of a country depends absolutely on the quantity of good men and women in it.
John Ruskin