All errors which a man is likely to commit against advice are far outweighed by the evil of allowing others to constrain him for his good.
John Stuart MillMost persons have but a very moderate capacity of happiness. Expecting...in marriage a far greater degree of happiness than they commonly find, and knowing not that the fault is in their own scanty capability of happiness.
John Stuart MillIs there any moral enormity which might not be justified by imitation of such a Deity?
John Stuart MillHe who lets the world choose his plan of life for him has need of no other faculty than that of ape-like imitation.
John Stuart Mill