Most writers begin with accounts of their first home, their family, and the town, often from quite a hostile point of view-love/hate, let's say. In a way, this stepping outside, in an attempt to judge enough to create a duplicate of it, makes you an outsider. . . . I think it's healthy for a writer to feel like an outsider. If you feel like an insider you get committed to a partisan view, you begin to defend interests, so you wind up not really empathizing with all mankind.
John UpdikeIt's a man's world, they say; but in its daily textures it is a world created by and for women.
John UpdikeProse should have a flow, the forward momentum of a certain energized weight; it should feel like a voice tumbling in your ear.
John Updike