Seemed to me important in writing about people to be able to describe the sexual transactions between them. It's - for many people it's the height of, what they see, of ecstasy and poetry is in their sexual encounters. And furthermore, personality - human personality does not end in the bedroom, but persists.
John UpdikeWhat you haven't done by thirty you're not likely to do. What you have done you'll do lots more.
John Updike