When it's over and you look in the mirror, did you do the best you were capable of? If yes, you will probably be ok with the outcome
John WoodenA Dominican monk, Father Henri Didon, used it as a watchword for his pupils in sports at Arcueil College in Paris. Baron Pierre De Coubertin, founder of the modern Olympics, made it the Olympic Games ideal adopted at the Antwerp Games in 1920. I never mentioned winning to my players. I mentioned constantly that all I wanted them to do was the best they could. If they're good enough, the score will be to their liking; if they're not, it won't be but that's nothing to hang their head about. Sometimes the other fellow is just better than you are.
John WoodenYou cannot antagonize and be a positive influence, and you will antagonize when you discipline through emotion.
John Wooden