The only way I see an out is for you to take full responsibility.
People want to be part of something bigger than they are.
I think one of the reasons our court system wants to remove The 10 Commandments is because The 10 Commandments reminds us we are sinners.
Before people deal with their own sin, they are always dealing with other people's sin.
Some say you forgive and forget. Not true. You can't forget but you walk forward in forgiveness.
The #1 reasons are unsuccessful is their inability to lead themselves.