There will be people the old flesh will rise up and wonder why God blessed them. But no one will ever be envious on God's blessings on their children.
I don't know of a way to have a generous church without a generous pastor.
If you listen to your people they'll tell you what's important.
Feel the force of forgiveness.
If your lives connect with other people you have influence.
If you are godly it has been because you have been made godly.