The problem with making a virtual world of oneself is akin to the problem with projecting ourselves onto a cyberworld: thereโs no end of virtual spaces in which to seek stimulation, but their very endlessness, the perpetual stimulation without satisfaction, becomes imprisoning.
Jonathan FranzenFiction is a particularly effective way for strangers to connect across time and distance
Jonathan Franzenshe was so much a personality and so little anything else that even staring straight at her he had no idea what she really looked like.
Jonathan FranzenSince our technology is really just an extension of ourselves, we donโt have to have contempt for its manipulability in the way we might with actual people. Itโs all one big endless loop. We like the mirror and the mirror likes us. To friend a person is merely to include the person in our private hall of flattering mirrors.
Jonathan Franzen