You are transformed by beholding, not by working.
Use money and love people. Don't love money and use people.
I'm not saying everything out there is bad and toxic, but there are some things that are not scriptural. For example, some people don't understand that the law was given by Moses, but grace and truth came by Jesus Christ.
Only the holy spirit, the spirit of the lord, can transform us.
Of all the people on Earth, the prefect and the greatest Man prayed.
Under grace, God is the blesser and you, the blessed. Can you simply take your place?