The joy of intimacy is the reward of commitment.

Sex is not the problem [Lust is]

Having a girlfriend was no longer my greatest need. Knowing and obeying Him was . I wanted to please Him in my relationships even if it meant looking radical and foolish to other people - even if it meant kissing dating goodbye.

The right thing at the wrong tme is the wrong thing.

The right thing at a wrong time is a wrong thing.

We express true love in obedience to God and service to others- not reckless or selfish behavior- and we choose these behaviors.

You get up and you preach a sermon and people walk away thinking what a great guy - and that's a failure as a pastor. Our job is to proclaim Christ.