Self-understanding rather than self-condemnation is the way to inner peace and mature conscience.

"And they lived happily ever after" is one of the most tragic sentences in literature. It's tragic because it's falsehood. It is a myth that has led generations to expect something from marriage that is not possible.

Maturity is achieved when a person accepts life as full of tension.

There is too much undissolved wrath and punishment in most religions.

We achieve inner health only through forgiveness - the forgiveness not only of others but also of ourselves.

After a quarter of a century of personal experience and professional observation, I have come to understand that peace of mind is the true goal of the considered life. I know now that the sum of all other possessions does not necessarily add up to peace of mind; on the other hand, I have seen this inner tranquility flourish without the material supports of property or even the buttress of physical health. Peace of mind can transform a cottage into a spacious manor hall; the want of it can make a regal residence an imprisoning shell.

Nature does not demand that we be perfect. It requires only that we grow.