No matter how lovesick a woman is, she shouldn't take the first pill that comes along!

Marriages, like careers, need constant nurturing... the secret of having it all is loving it all.

My husband and I have never considered divorce... murder sometimes, but never divorce.

Don't fool yourself that you are going to have it all. You are not. Psychologically, having it all is not even a valid concept. The marvelous thing about human beings is that we are perpetually reaching for the stars. The more we have, the more we want. And for this reason, we never have it all.

Real intimacy is only possible to the degree that we can be honest about what we are doing and feeling.

Accept that all of us can be hurt, that all of us can and surely will at times fail. Other vulnerabilities, like being embarrassed or risking love, can be terrifying, too. I think we should follow a simple rule: if we can take the worst, take the risk.

The more we have, the more we want. And for this reason, we never have it all.