I've been so mistreated by male authority in my life that I had a terrible time in my marriage trying to be a submissive wife. I wanted to rule the roost in everything. And it wasn't even really that I was rebellious; I was afraid of being hurt. And I think that a lot of people that choose these alternative lifestyles, I think it's because they've been hurt somewhere along the line very badly.

Addictions - Run to Jesus instead of running to your addiction.

Having everything your way is highly overrated.

If God changes your heart, be willing to change your plans

Better to have a big goal and reach half of it than to have no goal and reach all of it.

If you want to be unhappy, uncomfortable, and insecure, just spend your life trying to do something that is not right for you. It is just like trying to wear shoes that don't fit.

Do what you don’t want to do to get what you want to get.