If you're holding on to an offense, then you haven't forgiven the person who hurt you. Unforgiveness finds excuses to talk about what people have done to us, and we'll tell anyone who will listen. There's a difference between sharing your testimony to help someone and talking about what's been done to you because you are angry about it.
Joyce MeyerDon’t feel like you have to take every suggestion people give you. Not every good idea is a God idea.
Joyce MeyerThere’s nothing more dangerous to the kingdom of darkness than a believer with the Word of God in their mouth.
Joyce Meyer