Some people are hurting so bad you have to do more than preach a message to them. You have to BE a message to them.
Joyce MeyerThe first step to forgiveness is the desire to do it, no matter how you feel toward the person who hurt you. Then you make the decision to do it which means it's a firm decision that won't change when your feelings change. The next step is to depend on the Holy Spirit to help you do what you've decided to do.
Joyce Meyer